Handling Candidate Rejection: A Delicate Balancing Act

At Mergify, we’re growing. That means we’re hiring. And hiring means rejecting candidates—sometimes, a lot of them.

It’s one of our hiring process's hardest and most uncomfortable parts. But it’s also one of the most important.

Here’s how we do it, why we do it this way, and what we’ve learned.

Our Hiring Process

Our process is straightforward:

1. Technical Challenge (Homework): A take-home exercise. It’s not about getting the “right” solution—it’s about seeing how candidates think, how they structure their code, how they communicate.
2. Technical Interview: If the challenge looks good, we go deeper with live problem-solving and discussion.
3. CEO Interview: Finally, we align on values, motivation, and team fit.

The truth is, most rejections happen after step one.

Why Most Rejections Happen Early

The technical challenge gives us a lot of signals. Code speaks louder than words. It shows your level of experience, your grasp of best practices,and your ability to explain what you’re doing and why.

When we’re hiring for a senior or staff-level role, we expect to see certain patterns: clean code, clear trade-offs, thoughtful structure, and strong communication.

Sometimes, that’s not what we see. And then comes the hard part: rejecting the candidate.

Two Roads: Silence or Explanation

When rejecting someone, there are two main ways to do it:

• Short and polite: “Thanks, but you’re not a good fit for this role at this time.”
• Detailed and honest: “Here’s what we saw in your code and why we don’t think you match the level we’re looking for.”

Both options come with trade-offs.

The Silent Treatment (a.k.a. the short reply)

Short messages feel cold. They leave candidates frustrated. Worst case, they assume we’re idiots who just didn’t get their brilliance. If they’re in a bad mood (and let’s face it, job searching is stressful), it might even turn into a rant.

But here’s the thing: if a candidate can’t imagine that their code might not meet expectations, if they can’t ask with humility and curiosity—they’re probably not a good fit for us anyway.

We sometimes offer a little more context—“Your level of experience, as shown in the code, doesn’t match our expectations for this role”—but not much more than that.

The Honest Route (a.k.a. the detailed feedback)

This sounds great in theory. It’s respectful. It shows we care. And sometimes, yes, we take this road.

But let’s be honest: this road can be a mess.

Some candidates respond by debating with us, point by point, defending every line. We’ve heard everything from “it worked on my machine” to “we’ve always done it this way at BigCorpXYZ.”

Others treat the feedback like a code review and come back with a revised version, hoping to improve their chances.

And here’s the catch: sometimes we do see improvements. But if the first submission was at 40%, and we need the first version at 80% for a senior role, then even with effort, we’re still not there. And we hate the idea of someone spending more unpaid time reworking a challenge that won’t change the outcome.

It’s a waste of time—for them, and for us.

What We Do (And Why)

So what’s the “right” way?

There isn’t one. Hiring is messy. People are complex. Every rejection risks hurting someone’s confidence or wasting their time.

At Mergify, we’ve chosen a middle path. We:

• Keep our rejections respectful, but concise.
• Give a high-level reason (usually it boils down to experience level).
• Only go into detail if the candidate asks and we think there’s value in sharing.

We try to be fair. We try to be human. Most importantly, we try to avoid wasting anyone’s time with false hope.

Final Thoughts

Rejection sucks. On both sides. As a candidate, you’re putting yourself out there. As a company, you’re trying to balance honesty with kindness, signal with noise, speed with thoughtfulness.

We’re not perfect. But we’ve learned a lot by talking openly with candidates, listening to their feedback, and refining our process.

So if you’re applying at Mergify: know that we appreciate the effort. Know that we’re not judging your career—just this one signal, in this one moment, for this one role.

And if you don’t make it? Please don’t take it personally. We’ve all been there. And we’re rooting for you to find the role where you’re the perfect fit.